Need some advise from experience people. Please help!

[Jason]

Can't add much more then has been said here.....quite frankly I'm shocked that you haven't had more responses about strip clubs and bars but when the majority is speaking as a moral group of folks they know in their mind that it's a battle and give in before even being started!

Glad you are going w/ your moral/gut/instinct!

 

[JBryan314]

OP is in a tough spot and he's gotten good advice here.

There are some life events that people go through that tend to thin out their friend group. You lose old friends and sometimes make new ones.

Graduating high school.
Graduating college.
Getting married.
Having kids.
Going into the military.
Moving long distance.
Living Christian values.

 

[jakec]

so.........theres an open spot at the bachelor party??

 

[Stanley13]

so.........theres an open spot at the bachelor party??

Yea I was also thinking damn if this pussy isn't gonna go maybe u and I can get a invite Jakec???

 

[Stagman]

so.........theres an open spot at the bachelor party??

:lol::lol::lol:

 

[bohica793]

so.........theres an open spot at the bachelor party??

Yeah I hear they are looking for someone to pick up the tab. You volunteering?

 

[Brandon_SPC]

so.........theres an open spot at the bachelor party??

Go ahead. They won't mind if you take up that tab :lol:

 

[jakec]

Go ahead. They won't mind if you take up that tab :lol:

i hear ya!! just messin with you man! good job on standing up for what you believe in!

 

[Stanley13]

i hear ya!! just messin with you man! good job on standing up for what you believe in!

Jake were u sober when u wrote ^ this???

 

[Idoono]

I think you already know the answer, so trust your instincts and there's absolutely nothing wrong with respecting your lady and your beliefs....

This ^^ +1

Idoono

 

[Hopin4aboat]

I would offer to buy him a dinner and sip a quality cold beer while smokin a quality cigar, afterwards head to the house and let the boys go have fun spending a weeks pay to look at some trashy hooker and get so drunk they don't remember the next day.

 

[JWlineman]

As it's been stated already be faithful to God and yourself. Your friends and family will respect you for sticking to your values...and I'm sure it would go a long way with the misses as well.

 

[zombieh8r]

My bachelor party was in New Orleans, as you can imagine it got a little rowdy. My best man didn't go because of "work" so we all went fishing the next weekend also. Don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to, they'll understand and maybe y'all can do a less fun male bonding thing at a different time.

 

[Savage]

Nope. Be a man and say no to peer pressure.

 

[Va boy]

Thank goodness it was an easy question...I thought he was going to ask a bench-clearing question like "what's the best caliber deer rifle?"
Sometimes doing what you think is right is harder than not. The easier path is to go along with the guys. Do what you want to do. All other advice above applies.

 

[donr101395]

Do what's right for you. You owe no one an explanation.